Friday, February 25, 2011
It started as a typical week day for me. My alarm clock woke me from my slumber with some smooth jazz. I got dressed, brushed my teeth and hair but decided there was no need for make-up or any other beauty enhancements. I grabbed a blueberry cereal bar, slugged down an icy cold glass of milk and was out the door. I dropped Laura off at work at about 8:30AM and as I pulled out of the parking lot, I noticed the gas gauge. The car was literally running on fumes. Thankfully there is a Holiday Gas Station one block from Laura's work place.
This is where an innocent trip to the gas station, gets interesting...
Sunday, February 20, 2011
My Big Dream
Dreams have always been a big part of my life. They give me answers to my current and past struggles, they help me work through grief when I have lost a loved-one and they entertain me in my night life. The dream I am writing about in this hub is one that helped me prepare for my father's death. Dad had been sick for some time with emphysemia and I was having trouble coming to terms with his impending death from this disease. Here is my dream:
I'm over at dad's apartment watching t.v. I hear a noise coming from the kitchen and run to see what's going on. Dad is using his hands and pointing to his throat. It's obvious to me that dad is gasping for air and will die if I don't do something. I call 911 but something is wrong with the phone, so I pick dad up in my arms and put him in the car. I speed to the hospital but keep my eye on dad as he is fighting for air. I am so scared but keep telling him that everything will be alright. I eventually get him to the hospital. I am holding dad in my arms running through the hospital. I am running down a very long and dark tunnel. I keep repeating to dad that everything will be ok and I will get him help. As I'm running to get help and holding him in my arms, I am calling my family of four siblings. I am screaming and crying and asking them to come to the hospital because I think dad is dying. Each sibling I talked to, blew me off and had better things to do than worry about dad and this situation. I was so hurt for dad and very angry that they didn't seem to care. I keep searching for a doctor as I'm running down the hallway and hoping I will see one in time to save my dad. I eventually see a doctor in blue scrubs and beg and scream for him to help my dad. The doctor says there is nothing he can do, even though he hasn't even checked him out. I feel so alone and scared because noone seems to listen or care. I look down at dad after the doctor leaves us, and he is dead. The grief is more than I can bear as I sit on the floor, holding my dear father in my arms. Tears stream down my face and fall on dad as I cry out in sheer pain and sadness.
I woke up from the dream and ran into dad's room crying. I was staying with him at the time, due to his illness. I sat on the bed next to him and told him about the unsettling dream. In his calm, loving, dad voice, he told me that it was time to start preparing myself with his declining health and impending death. I just cried in his arms and told him how much I loved him. He knew I was in denial about how sick he was and gently gave me permission to accept it.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Hi Everyone-Thought I would share a great appetizer that is perfect for a Superbowl Party. This recipe is a favorite with my friends and family and I hope you'll enjoy it.
Laura and I are having a buffet of our favorite finger foods, including the dip pictured above. We will graze at the buffet on and off throughout the game. Here is the menu: Cocktail Wieners, Celery stuffed with Cream Cheese, 5-Layer Mexican Bean Dip and Guacamole Dip, Tortilla Chips, Pickles, Black and Green Olives. Have a wonderful Game Day however and wherever you choose to watch it.
8 Ounces Sour Cream
1 Can Refried Black Beans
1 Small Can of Bean Dip
1/2 Package of Taco Seasoning
1 TBSP Chili Powder
1/2 TSP Ground Cumin
1 Cup Shredded Cheese
3 Green Onions Sliced
1/3 Cup Sliced Black Olives
1 Tomatoe Chopped
Mix sour cream, bean dip, chili powder, cumin and taco seasoning in bowl
Spread dip evenly onto bottom of a serving platter
Top with layers of remaining ingredients
Refrigerate dip until chilled
Serve with tortilla chips